Unk…
September 21st, 2003Yesterday I stood pallbearer for one of my favoite uncles…
Sigh, it’s so hard to put into words how I feel about uncle George’s passing… “Unk” was a great man… He was a bit loud, a bit opinionated… a bit of a “wise ass”… In other words, you’d think he was part of the Slusher family by blood rather than marrige… :) He and Aunt Lelia have alway been there to support me… I can’t quite imagine what a Slusher get together will be like without him….
At the same time, Unk’s been sick for quite some time… I really only saw him once while he was really sick… when my parents and I went to see them for Christmas this past year. I don’t know that I was prepared to see him that way. Unk had always been a big guy, every bit as tall as me and a bit heavier… But when I walked into the room I thought I was looking at a different person because he was so thin he was literally skin and bones… It wasn’t until he opened his mouth and that familiar voice came out, along with that familiar wit… Though his body was drawn and tired, his spirit was still strong…
Unk and I spent a long time talking together that day… and I think that made yesterday easier for me to handle. When we went to view his body at the funeral home, I knew he wasn’t really there… His spirit, his essence, what made him… well, him… was finally at peace… and though I miss him greatly, my heart felt a great release, knowing that he was now in a far better place…